It’s completely normal to have questions about your identity, and we want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. It’s important to remember that your feelings and thoughts are valid, and seeking clarity is a positive step.
Gender identity refers to an individual’s deeply-held sense of their own gender, which may or may not align with the sex they were assigned at birth. It is a personal and internal understanding of oneself as being male, female, a blend of both, neither, or something else entirely. Gender identity is separate from biological sex, which is based on physical attributes such as genitalia and chromosomes.
For many people, their gender identity matches the societal expectations and norms associated with their assigned sex at birth. These individuals are often referred to as cisgender. However, for some individuals, their gender identity does not align with their assigned sex, and they may identify as transgender, non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid, or other terms that reflect their unique understanding of their gender.
Gender identity is not solely determined by these physical traits. How you feel, your sense of self, and the gender you identify with are important. Reflect on your emotions, thoughts, and how you perceive yourself. If you consistently identify as a male and feel comfortable with that identity, it’s likely an important aspect of who you are.
It’s natural to feel anxious about the future, especially when exploring your identity. Remember that understanding your gender is a journey, and it’s okay to take the time you need. Embrace self-discovery and allow yourself to grow and evolve. Finding acceptance within yourself is an empowering step toward a positive future.
While we’re here to provide guidance, it’s important to consider seeking professional support to discuss your feelings further. A gender therapist or counsellor can provide you with a safe space to explore your thoughts and emotions. They can help you navigate this process and offer valuable insights tailored to your unique situation.
Please remember that you are not alone, and there is support available to help you along your journey of self-discovery. It’s brave to ask these questions, and by taking steps toward understanding your identity, you’re taking control of your future.